Danny being home

My little boy Cam is such strange little duck!! Since Danny has been up in Utah working for the past three weeks, the boy's dont get to see their dad at all on the week days. On the days Danny is not here, Cam goes to bed around 7:30-8:00 and will sleep until either 3:30-5:30 then sleep until 9:00 in the morning. When Danny is home, I cant get Cam to go to bed before 10:30-11:00, then he wakes up two or three times during the night. He just so badly wants to stay up and play with daddy!! It's really cute, but at the same time it's kind of frusterating for me, because I like the kids to go to bed early so I can get a littl "me time" before bed. I love my kids, and I love being a mom, but everybody needs time to themselves where they can just relax!! Cam needs to get used to daddy being here, because he's been going away on the week days since he was only 6 weeks old and now he's 10 weeks old.
Alex, on the other hand has been acting out alot more when Danny is not here. He throws at least one really bad temper tantrum a day, and wont nap (which is why he throw's temper tantrums, because he's super tired!) Alex has always been a really big mama's boy and so, when ever the baby starts crying he thinks that I should ignore the baby and hold him. I tell him that Cam needs hugs too, he just doesn't know how to talk yet so he cries. Sometimes I get too frusterated with Alex, and I shouldn't, it's just hard doing this by myself and i tend to get overwhelmed!! I keep telling myself that this is only termperary and hopefully sooner than later, Danny wont have to go up to Utah!! Anyways, we are just lucky that Danny has been able to work and for that I am extremly thankfull!!